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Savage Love: Between a rock and hard place with male chastity

After spending some years in the doldrums after having kids, my husband and I are now enjoying hot kinky sex and the occasional free pass to [have sex with] other people. We couldn’t be happier. I have a friend who was extremely keen for me to cage his [rooster] with the same kind of locking male chastity device I got for my...

Savage Love: How to play out rape fantasy? Start by rethinking ‘rape’ label

I’m a straight 26-year-old man who wants advice on helping my fiancée realize a particular fantasy. We have been dating for three years and are in a happy monogamous relationship. I was always vanilla, but she enjoys rougher sex and light bondage. We’ve incorporated some of this into our sex lives, and we are both happy with...

Savage Love: Things to consider before selling your body

I’m a 24-year-old gay male with few resources and no “marketable” skills. I have made a lot of bad choices and now I struggle to make ends meet in a crappy dead-end job, living paycheck to paycheck in an expensive East Coast city. Recently, someone on Grindr offered me $3,000 to have sex with him. He is homely and nearly...

Savage Love: He cheated with his ex’s sister. Deal breaker?

I’m a straight female in my mid 20s. I’ve been dating a wonderful guy for two years – but I recently found something that has put me on edge. Before we met, he was in a relationship with a terrible, alcoholic and mentally unstable woman. They got pregnant early in the relationship and stayed together for about five years. We...

Savage Love: She’s mad that I’m not mad. What to do?

My girlfriend of six months hooked up with one of my buds. They were both drunk at a party, and I was out of town for a sports thing. I wasn’t angry when she “confessed.” I thought it was hot and said we should maybe have a threesome with the dude. I’m not interested in being with a guy, but I’d be down with a M/M/F...

Savage Love: Being ‘monogamish’ is hot – except when it sucks

I’ve always been a big believer in the common-sense obviousness that monogamy is hard. Additionally, I like the idea of my wife getting [bleeped]. I don’t have any desire to be denigrated or emasculated; I just get off on the idea of her being satisfied and a little transgressive. Early in our relationship, we talked about...

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