Sex & Love

I am a 38-year-old lesbian, very femme, very out. I have a coworker I can’t figure out. We’ve worked together for a year and gotten

My father left my mother abruptly when I was 14 years old, and he hasn’t contacted either of us since. It was a crushing blow

I’m a professional dominatrix, and I thought I’d seen everything in the last five years. But this situation completely baffled the entire dungeon. This middle-aged

I’m a 67-year-old gay man. After a breakup 15 years ago, I believed the possibility of emotional and sexual intimacy with a partner was over

I married my high-school sweetheart at 17, had a baby, together a few years, mental illness and subsequent infidelity led to things ending. My ex-husband

I just read your reply to a woman who wrote to you regarding her partner’s lack of libido. Although I found the article somewhat interesting,

I am a 22-year-old Italian man, 100 percent straight, sensitive, and sporty. I have been reading Savage Love for years in Internazionale. I have one

I used to be a fan of your column, Dan, but something happened to you. Maybe it’s stress, the current political climate, or some other

I’m a straight man in a live-in relationship with a beautiful woman. There are no sparks in bed, and it’s been more than a year