Savage Love

A syndicated sex-advice column by Dan Savage

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Should I flee a life of polyamory for ‘The One’?

I’m a 24-year-old nonbinary person living in...

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What’s this kinkster gotta to do to get on the scene?

How does one get into the gay BDSM bottoming and leather...

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Les talk: Gay and bisexual women seek Savage advice

I am a 38-year-old lesbian, very femme, very out. I have...

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I once had an incestuous relationship. Now my wife thinks I’m a monster

My father left my mother abruptly when I was 14 years old, and he hasn’t contacted...

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Do vampires ejaculate blood?

I’m a professional dominatrix, and I thought...

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I’m a daddy. Does that make me a creepy old fool?

I’m a 67-year-old gay man. After a breakup 15...

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My flirty ex is a huge turn-on. Is that bad?

I married my high-school sweetheart at 17, had a baby,...

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Because you asked, here’s some quick advice

I just read your reply to a woman who wrote to you...