Sex & Love

The best advice I ever got was a question. I was 17 and I was the living embodiment of a big hot mess. If it

I am newly divorced and have started a relationship with a man I’ve known and deeply cared about for decades. The sex is amazing –

My best friend, “Pam,” and I have been friends since college, and run a small catering business together. We were married the same year and

For a few years in high school, and a few years again in our late 20’s, I dated a man who my family – and

I’m a cis woman in my mid-40s, and my significant other has a cuckolding fetish. My first response was “Oh, hell no!” But if I’m

This woman has gone down on me (I’m a man) more than half a dozen times in the last three months. Each time seems to

I’m in a pickle. All I want is to experience touch, intimacy, and sexual pleasure – but without freaking out. I grew up with a

I’ve been enjoying consensual nonmonogamy for the past two years, in part thanks to your column and podcast. I have a delightful young lover, and