Savage Love

A syndicated sex-advice column by Dan Savage

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Is it OK to fend off creepy men by pretending to be a lesbian?

Is it a super douchey move to pretend to be a lesbian to...

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What’s pup with this guy’s new nickname at work?

There is a guy at my work who is into puppy play. I know...

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Negotiating with diaper-wearers and park pervs

I’ve been dating a nice guy for a month or so. Sex...

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Penile problems big and small, clean and clogged

I’m a 33-year-old straight guy with a small dick....

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Should The Cougar sever ties with The Kid?

There’s this boy – he’s 29;...

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How does a queer woman navigate a world of mansplaining heteros?

I’m a queer woman. When I entered my 30s, I...

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After years of free porn, is it time for a penance?

Over the years, I have consumed what I believe to be an...

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Three kids, a long-term marriage and a sex life that sucks

Straight male, 48, married 14 years, three kids under age...