Savage Love

A syndicated sex-advice column by Dan Savage

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Can an introvert and extrovert make it work over the long haul?

Gay male in my late 20s. I recently ended things with a guy. Our relationship started as a...

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And now a few questions from the Savage Love Live audience

A large crowd braved a snowstorm to come out to Savage Love Live at Boston’s Wilbur...

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Advice for the newbies: Don’t attempt to push past the bend

Down to business: Christmas came and went, and every present I bought for my extraordinary...

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Is there a good way to recycle or donate used sex toys?

I am no longer sexually active, but I have a significant collection of sex toys from earlier...

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Savage Love: Sexual racism is alive and well in gay community

As a queer man of color – I’m Asian – I feel wounded whenever I am...

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Relationship rules should go both ways with bisexual girlfriend

I am a 30-year-old straight man and I’ve been with a 28-year-old bisexual woman for a...

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Savage Love: Between a rock and hard place with male chastity

After spending some years in the doldrums after having kids, my husband and I are now enjoying...

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Savage Love: How to play out rape fantasy? Start by rethinking ‘rape’ label

I’m a straight 26-year-old man who wants advice on helping my fiancée realize a...